If you’ve ever felt that someone was “the one” or had an experience where you knew it was meant to be from the moment you met, then you know how incredible it feels when two people come together as a match made in heaven.
But what does it FEEL like to meet your soulmate?
You’ll Know When You’ve Found The Right Person
When you find your soulmate, there is no doubt about it. There may be some confusion for a while because they can look very different than who we think our soulmate should be, but once you have found them, everything falls into place perfectly. And even if you don’t realize it immediately, you will eventually.
For example, if you were looking for someone tall, dark, and handsome, you might go on a few dates with guys who fit those criteria only to discover that none of them have appealed to you. But you finally find the guy with everything you want, except he’s not physically what you were looking for. At this point, you’ll probably start questioning whether these guys are your soulmates after all.
However, once you get past the initial attraction phase, you’ll notice little quirks and characteristics that make up their personality and fall more deeply in love with them.
What Is A Soul Mate?
A soul mate is a person you share a deep connection with. They’re someone who completes you and makes you whole – someone whose company brings out the best in you. They also understand you entirely and accept you unconditionally for exactly who you are.
Soul mates tend to be opposites rather than partners. However, while the opposite doesn’t always equal compatibility, it helps! For example, if you’re a very outgoing and social person, you won’t necessarily choose someone quiet and reserved. Instead, you’d probably gravitate toward someone who complements your personality.
Your soul mate understands you better than anyone else on Earth. They see through your flaws and imperfections and still love you anyway. That unconditional love gives you the confidence to open up to them and reveal your true self. Plus, since you both already know each other inside-out, you never have to worry about saying something awkward or embarrassing to each other.
So, why do we often struggle to recognize our soul mates? We often spend too much time trying to change ourselves instead of accepting who we are. We become obsessed with finding someone who looks like us or shares our interests. While it’s important to date people outside of our comfort zone, sometimes we forget that we deserve to be loved for who we are and not who we wish we could be.
How Do I Find My Soul Mate?
Finding your soul mate isn’t easy by any means. Even if you think you’ve been lucky enough to stumble upon yours, you may not be ready yet to fully commit to another person. But here are some tips to help you along the way.
First of all, stop comparing yourself to others. Everyone is different, and everyone deserves to be happy. Don’t try to force yourself into dating someone simply because you think you should. As soon as you let go of the idea that you need to find someone specific, you’ll free yourself from the pressure to settle down quickly. Also, remember that meeting your soul mate isn’t all about chemistry. Chemistry is great, but it’s certainly not necessary. Chemistry comes later when you’ve built trust and respect between you two.
Another thing you should keep in mind is that your soulmate will rarely walk straight into your life. They usually take a bit longer to show themselves. Therefore, don’t give up hope if you haven’t found your soul mate yet. Keep searching until you do!
Finding Your Soul Mate Isn’t All About Chemistry
Many people believe that having chemistry is essential before getting serious with someone. While chemistry is important, it’s not the only factor in finding your soul mate. Chemistry is a physical manifestation of compatibility which occurs naturally during sexual intercourse. However, it takes much more than just good sex to sustain a healthy relationship.
So, what happens if you don’t have chemistry with someone you’re interested in? Should you end the relationship immediately? Of course not! Chemistry is just one part of a successful relationship.
You can build a strong foundation for your future with someone even if you aren’t sexually attracted to them. Remember that your soul mate isn’t going anywhere anytime soon. So if you’re not feeling 100% comfortable with who you are around him, don’t push yourself. Give yourself some time to explore your feelings and work through your issues. Eventually, you’ll feel comfortable being around him again and then know that you’ve found your soul mate.
You Can’t Force Love
Some people say that love is blind and that we shouldn’t judge a book by its cover. But it’s challenging to overlook superficial traits such as race, age, height, weight, and appearance. After all, we’re all humans, and we care about beauty. So yes, we do judge books by their covers. Sometimes subconsciously, but we do.
However, it’s important to remember that you can’t force love. You can’t control how you feel about someone based solely on their appearance. Sure, you might be attracted to someone initially, but that doesn’t mean you’ll automatically fall head over heels in love with them.
It sounds crazy, but you can learn to love someone despite their appearance. One technique involves imagining that you’re looking at someone else entirely. Then imagine seeing them walking down the street. Would you stare at them? Probably not. Now picture them naked. Still not sure? Okay, now pretend that you hate them and tell me why. Chances are, you’ll discover that you don’t hate them. You dislike certain aspects of their appearance. Once you see beyond those surface-level details, you’ll realize that they’re pretty cool underneath them.
The same applies to falling in love with someone. No matter how attractive they may seem, you’ll have to overcome your initial adverse reaction to them. Only then will you develop the ability to love them regardless of their appearance.
Sooner Or Later, He’s Gonna Leave
Sometimes it seems like every woman wants a man who treats her like a princess. She wants to be treated like royalty and expects her boyfriend to fulfill all of her needs. Unfortunately, this type of relationship is doomed to fail because men don’t live up to women’s unrealistic expectations.
Men are typically relatively straightforward with their intentions. If you ask him to treat you like a princess, he’ll either laugh in your face or politely decline. Either way, he won’t put up with your demands indefinitely. He knows you’re not worth treating like a queen unless you earn it. Besides, who would want to marry a woman who thinks she deserves a prince? While it’s nice to dream about having a fairy tale romance, you mustn’t expect your soul mate to act anything less than genuine.
