We all know what it’s like to feel the pang of longing for someone we can’t have, but how do you recognize that person?
We all want love, and we all have our ways of finding it.
But there are many different types of relationships, from love triangles to non-committal friendships. How does one begin to figure out what kind of relationship they’re looking for?
The “Sealed” and Unsealed Signs
You probably already know what makes you happy, but if not, here are some signs to help you figure out what kind of relationship you’ve been searching for.
How Do I Know My Potential Love Interest is a True Match?
It’s easy to get caught up in the feeling of falling for someone. But if you’re having fun or getting together with friends, it might be hard to tell whether that’s a relationship or a casual fling. If you think about them almost every day, constantly talk about them, and can’t imagine life without them, this is the beginning of your true love.
If you’re genuinely interested in something more profound — and you think you’d be willing to work on it — then look for these other signs:
- They’re attracted to you first.
- They make you feel good about yourself
- They fill a void within you
- They make you laugh
- You’re genuinely excited to spend time with them
- You share similar values and interests
- You feel an instant connection when you meet
- No matter how much time passes, you still feel the same way about each other.
Soul Mate Search Tips To Help Find The One… Or Not!
Now that you know the signs of what you’re looking for, here are some tips to help you find the right partner: Be open to new experiences — try going out once or twice, traveling somewhere exciting, or trying something new.
Be confident enough to let people see your best side — don’t worry about who’ll like you more than others.
Take things slowly. Don’t rush into anything serious; you’ll both have a better chance of making it work if you go at your own pace.
Be selective and choose wisely — while you may have a lot of options, you only need one perfect match.
Don’t give up too soon — if you’re unsure if this person is “the one,” keep trying until you are.
1) They’re Attracted to Me First (and Only)
This is obvious, but sometimes it’s hard to tell. If you find yourself daydreaming about being with someone else — or if they’re the only person you ever fantasize about — then you’re likely to be in love.
2) We Have A Lot In Common
You’ve found your soul mate if you have similar goals, dreams, and ambitions. However, if you don’t have any common ground, then you’re probably wasting your time searching for someone who doesn’t care as much as you do.
3) Our Eyes Meet With An Instant Connection
You’re instantly drawn to each other when you first meet — it’s like you’re reading each other’s minds. This is because you’re both attuned to the world around you and understand each other well. And that goes for small things, too — if you notice something funny, you’ll know how to react before the other person has even finished saying it.
4) It Feels Like We’ve Known Each Other Forever
You can’t remember why you broke up last time, and you can’t imagine anyone else replacing this person. Even though you haven’t known each other long, you feel like you’ve known each other forever.
5) There Are No Mistakes Between Us
You don’t have to think about what you say or do. Everything comes easily to you, and you never have to second-guess yourself. You also know precisely what they want to hear, and you always say exactly what you mean.
And most importantly, you know you’re meant to be together. Nothing will change that.
6) We Make Each Other Smile
Whether you’re laughing or crying, you can’t stop smiling when you’re with this person. This is a sign that they bring out the best in you — they make you feel happy, positive, and inspired.
7) We Share Similar Values and Goals
Even if you aren’t yet ready to commit, you feel deeply connected with this person. You both believe in the same direction to support each other through difficult times.
8) We Never Get Rude or Disrespectful
When you’re with this person, everything seems effortless. You’re both polite and respectful — no matter how crazy, busy, or tired you are, you’ll always put their needs ahead of yours.
9) We Always Communicate Well
Your communication skills are on point — you can talk to each other clearly and effectively. You can express yourself in a language that the other person understands.
10) We Both Know What We Want From Life
You’re working towards the same goal, and you’re always on the same page — you know exactly what you want, and you’re open to discussing changes in plans.
11) We Work Together For a Purpose
You’re both driven by a strong desire to make the world a better place — you’re both doing your part to contribute to society. Whether volunteering, running a charity, or starting a business, you’re helping improve the world.
12) We Always Feel Comfortable Around Each Other
You’re comfortable being yourself around this person, and this person feels comfortable being themselves around you. When you’re with each other, you feel relaxed and safe.
13) We Can Tell Each Other Anything
There’s nothing you won’t be able to say to this person — you trust each other completely, so you know that whatever is said between you stays between you.
14) We’re Open About Our Lives
Nothing is off limits — you both respect each other’s boundaries and are okay with knowing about the other person’s past mistakes, struggles, and failures. As a result, you can build a solid foundation for your future together.
15) We’re Always There For Each Other
When you’re upset, you know that this person knows how to comfort you. When you’re happy, you know that this person knows exactly how to celebrate you. You don’t have to explain or justify your feelings to each other — you know what makes the other person smile, laugh, and cry.
16) We Support Each Other’s Dreams
You both want to take risks and explore your passions — you’re both willing to put in the effort to achieve your goals.