Have you ever wondered why the right person comes along in your life and why they don’t seem to stick around? Maybe you’ve had your fair share of broken relationships (perhaps even marriages) and wonder, “Why can’t I find true happiness with anyone?”
I want to tell you the truth – you’re not alone. Many people believe that their soul mates are out there somewhere and will eventually appear.
But the problem is, they are lost. They have gone through all kinds of emotional trauma and pain. Maybe they were hurt by another person or abused as children. They were never taught how to deal with these painful emotions and did not receive the proper guidance to heal themselves.
As a result, they have suppressed their emotions and become emotionally guarded. They have shut down their hearts and closed off their feelings. These things happen to us all at one time or another. Unfortunately, the most common reason for this is that we don’t get enough attention from our parents during childhood and adolescence. This is why I call it “the missing link theory.”
Why Did They Disappear Without A Trace
When our souls leave our bodies to go to Spirit World, they take with them all of the past pain, suffering, and unresolved issues we hold within ourselves. When we are born, we have no memories of our previous lives. We begin from scratch and have to build our entire selves from scratch.
So imagine that our soul is like a computer program. Our soul contains past experiences, memories, emotions, beliefs, and thoughts. When we die, we download ourselves into a new body where we start over again.
Now, let’s say that you have a program that contains a virus. To run smoothly, your program needs to be updated and repaired. But to do that, you need access to the source code. In other words, you must have a copy of the program on disk to repair the program.
If something goes wrong in the program, you can fix it quickly. The same thing happens to our souls. When we die, our spirit downloads itself into a new body. However, at that point, we are entirely unaware of who we are. Our consciousness becomes disconnected from our physical body.
This is when our soul leaves our body and enters the spirit world. To return to our physical body, we must re-download our soul into a new body to complete our journey. This is why we feel like different people when we die, downloading ourselves into a new body.
If we do not re-download ourselves, we stay stuck in Spirit World until we reach maturity. When we are ready to return to our physical bodies, we are guided by our Spirit Guides to choose a new body. When we make this decision, we give up our old life and embark on a new one.
We are given this choice to ensure that we fully develop the talents, skills, and abilities we already possess. We also have the opportunity to explore different options for our future life. Each option is like a new version of our software. Eventually, we will select a path closer to our Soulmate. Once we choose, we are guided back into our bodies to live our desired life.
Finding The Right Person Again
So, back to my story…I was born in 1970, meaning I am 40 years old. I remember having dreams and thinking I would meet another man someday who would be my soul mate. Then, I wondered why nobody seemed to notice that I existed in the world.
I remember feeling frustrated and angry, especially when I thought my family members didn’t appreciate who I was. I started to question whether or not they loved me. At the same time, I couldn’t figure out why everyone wanted to date me. It was almost as though people were trying to put me in a box and label me – like a dog, only worse.
I tried to change myself, hoping that would allow others to see me differently. I would work hard to gain acceptance from others, and then it would happen – the rejection would set in. I felt depressed and hopeless. I began to think that I would never find a partner who loved me unconditionally, cared about who I was, and accepted me as I was.
Then, one day, it happened – I met the love of my life…but he wasn’t who I thought he was. He was the very definition of perfection. I thought I had finally found him. But the more I got to know him, the more obvious it became that he was nothing like the perfect guy I thought he was.
After two years of dating and living together, we broke up. I was devastated and confused. I felt like I had lost everything. I went through a period of depression, suicidal thoughts, low self-esteem, and anger management problems. I felt like a failure.
Was it possible that I had been dating the wrong person all along? Could I possibly have missed my soul mate if she were still alive? I decided to look for answers. I searched everywhere – inside and outside of myself – to find my inner strength.
Finally, I realized that I needed to forgive myself and move forward. I learned how to trust myself again and opened myself up to love. I began to open my heart and mind to new possibilities.
Do I Have Any Chance Of Finding My Soul Mate Now And Ever?!
If I hadn’t made this effort to reconnect with myself, I wouldn’t be here today writing this article. I could have stayed stuck in Spirit World forever. Fortunately, I chose to take action and follow my guidance. The universe always provides us with opportunities to learn and grow.
We have to pay attention and listen carefully. I am grateful that I took the time to reflect upon my life and reconnect with my inner self. I am so happy that I did. Today, I am more confident, comfortable, healthier, and peaceful than ever. I am truly blessed.
The Good News
There is good news in that you can also find your soul mate. Just don’t give up. Keep searching and keep listening to your intuition. Trust yourself. Believe in yourself. Follow your instincts. Stay positive and be patient.
Eventually, you will find your soul mate. The only difference between you and me is that I have already found mine. I hope that you will find yours soon…and that it will last a lifetime.
Remember, every one of us has a unique purpose on this beautiful planet. We were all put here to experience this life together. There is no such thing as luck or coincidence. Everything that happens in our lives is meant to teach us something.
The lessons that we learn from our experiences help us evolve as individuals. The things that we do for ourselves help us to become stronger, more loving, and more compassionate beings. So, please don’t forget to love yourself first. Don’t forget to live your life to the fullest.
Live your life as if it were your last. Make sure to enjoy the journey. Never stop learning. Never stop growing. Never stop loving. Never stop believing in yourself. And never stop dreaming. Dream big and be courageous. You deserve this life. You deserve to have the best life that you can have.