How To Find Your Soulmate Using Astrology


Love astrologers say that the stars are aligned when two people meet, and they’re right to an extent – but it’s only one of several factors involved in attraction between a pair of souls.

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While you may have heard of astrological compatibility charts and horoscopes, there’s another way to look at love and relationships that rely on more than just your birth date or zodiac sign. This approach is called soul matching.

Astrologer and author Linda Goodman explains how this method works in her book “Soul Mates.”

What Does It Mean When Two People Are “Meant” For One Another?

“A soul mate is someone who resonates with you on a deep level,” said Goodman. “And while we all want someone to share our deepest thoughts, dreams, hopes, and fears, not everyone feels drawn to someone else who can make them feel complete as a human being.

The key thing here is that you don’t need to know anything about your prospective partner for them to be a good match for you. You must be open to meeting someone who shares your core values and beliefs.”

Goodman explained that a person has three main physical, emotional, and mental aspects. She says combining these three elements will determine whether you’ll enjoy spending time with a potential mate.

If you find yourself attracted to someone who makes you laugh, you may be a fun-loving type of person. If you gravitate towards someone who seems to understand you better than anyone else, perhaps you have a bit of a sensitive side.

Or if you tend to be shy around new people, maybe you’re just reserved by nature. No matter your personality traits, it’s important to recognize that each of us has them. We might not like sharing them with others, but in many ways, they define who we are.

“Your soulmate is the person who completes your unique blend of characteristics into something special,” said Goodman. “They make you feel like your best self and give you validation for the things you love most about yourself.

They bring out the best in you and help you grow through their positive influence. Someone who brings out your best qualities is a great addition to your life, whether single or in a committed, long-lasting relationship.”

So, how do you go about finding your soulmate?

Finding A Match With The Stars

When it comes to finding your perfect match using astrology, it’s easy to think that you can glance at a chart from your local bookstore and discover what kind of person you should be looking for. But according to astrologer and author David Meade, you shouldn’t rely solely on your star signs to figure it out.

“You’ve probably heard that it’s bad luck to marry before May 20th because the sun enters Taurus that day, and you should wait until then to tie the knot,” he wrote in his book, “The Sun Sign Guide to Life.”

“But I suggest you also check out the other planets during the same period — Mercury, Mars, Jupiter — which also move into Taurus that year.”

The Importance Of Communication In Relationships

Communication is crucial in any relationship, especially when dating someone for the first time. As Goodman pointed out, communication skills come naturally to some people, while others are more introverted and don’t necessarily feel comfortable sharing themselves.

It’s important to remember that no one is perfect, even the ones you call your soul mates. Everyone has flaws, and no one can expect perfection when they enter a relationship. Instead, focus on finding a balance between you and your partner.

If you can communicate well enough that you both feel understood, that’s already an accomplishment. Once you start working together and becoming familiar with one another, you may find that certain aspects become easier to talk about, allowing you to build up trust and understanding over time.

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Dating And Love After 40

One of the biggest challenges those entering mature relationships face is maintaining healthy boundaries and staying true to yourself. While many couples choose to keep their romance private, there’s nothing wrong with letting friends and family know that you’re getting serious with someone.

There’s nothing more embarrassing than walking into a room filled with people and feeling awkward when you realize that the object of your affection is sitting with someone else. Not to mention that plenty of people out there would love to tell you every detail of your former lover’s exes.

Once you’ve decided to take this step forward, it’s wise to maintain your privacy. Goodman advises that you should never reveal too much information about yourself before getting to know someone. If you’re honest, you won’t have to worry about hiding parts of your past from the person you’re dating.

Relationship Advice From An Expert!

There are many different approaches to finding your soul mate, but none are foolproof. Just because you see a connection doesn’t mean it’s meant to be, and just because you don’t connect with someone doesn’t mean it’s impossible. What matters most is communication, honesty, and respect.

Author David Meade explains how ending up with your soul mate could work out perfectly. He writes, “Many times when we are introduced to someone we think we will get along with; we find out later that we don’t click on a personal level. That is okay. Sometimes, it takes a little time for everything to come together, or sometimes it just doesn’t happen. Hundreds of stories of couples who fell madly in love after years apart.”

He continues, “I believe that if you are truly interested in a particular individual, and if you want to spend your life with them, then you will eventually find them. It may take a while, but it does happen.”

For more relationship advice, check out our article on how to stop worrying about money in a relationship.

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Jason Smith

I am a Marine who now works as a Web Developer. I have five US States left to visit. I like whiskey, wine, and coffee, soaking in hot springs or in my hot tub.

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