How To Calculate Your Soulmate


“I feel that I am going to marry him.”

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This line was uttered by Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman when she met Richard Gere. It is often said that our gut feelings can give us away as to whether or not we are with our soulmate.

While it’s true that there may be an instant attraction between two people, it’s important to note that attraction is only part of a successful relationship. If you are looking for a lasting romantic connection, it’s best to look at all aspects of your potential partner—their personality, character, and values.

According to Dr. John Gottman, a renowned relationship expert, five elements make up a healthy marriage:

The first element is emotional stability. This means that each member of the couple must be able to be emotionally present with each other. When your partner isn’t emotionally available to you, they will likely shut down emotionally. The second element of a healthy marriage is commitment. It would help if you were fully committed to your partner and their needs.

The third element of a happy marriage is communication. Communication is essential because it helps you build trust in your partner and allows them to feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and feelings. Without effective communication, you won’t be able to solve any issues that arise throughout your marriage.

The fourth element of a long-term loving relationship is conflict resolution. A happy marriage requires that both partners work through disagreements. When you don’t address problems early in the process, this will lead to more arguments during your marriage.

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Finally, the fifth element of a long-lasting relationship is sex. People who stay married tend to have higher rates of sexual activity than those who divorce. So even though it might seem like a good idea to wait until you’re married before having sex, research shows that a lack of intimacy leads to unhappiness in most relationships. Studies show that couples who have sex once a week have a lower divorce rate than those who have sex less than once a month.

If you want to find out if another person is your soulmate, check out these six ways to determine if they are your match.

1. Be open to new experiences

If you are always planning fun activities for your future spouse, they are not your soulmate. It’s important to remember that your soulmate should also support you in your dreams and goals. They should inspire you to live life to its fullest and help you reach your full potential.

A soulmate will push you to go after your passions, but they will also bring balance to your life. While you want your partner to support your career aspirations, you should also try to support their dreams and get involved in their hobbies.

2. Make time for each other

When you spend time together, you will naturally begin to share your deepest secrets and fears. In addition, spending time alone doesn’t mean you aren’t being intimate. You may not be in the same room. For example, if you work late every night, your partner may do some things around the house without you knowing. That’s okay; you should learn from your mistakes than ignore them completely.

3. Have fun together

One of the biggest reasons marriages fail is the fun stops. When you are dating, you should enjoy yourself and take risks. Spontaneous is a great way to test whether you want to be with that person. Take a chance, go somewhere exciting, and see where it takes you. As you grow closer to your partner, you should start to have more fun together. However, if things start to become too serious too quickly, stop and reassess the situation.

4. Pay attention to signs of commitment

Commitment comes in many forms. Some people commit verbally, while others show it through actions. You can use certain actions to determine if your partner is truly committed to you. First, ask yourself if they are willing to put their happiness aside to be there for you. Next, please pay close attention to what they say about you. If they compliment you, smile. Also, listen carefully to how they talk about you. If they call you sweetheart, you should consider moving forward.

5. Don’t expect perfection

Everyone makes mistakes. No matter how hard you try, you will still mess up from time to time. Although it’s important to work through the problems that come your way, you shouldn’t let your partner’s mistakes define you. Instead, focus on building on your strengths instead of trying to fix your weaknesses. One of the keys to a long-term relationship is learning to communicate effectively.

6. Work on trust

Trust is a critical aspect of a healthy relationship. It is important to tell someone exactly what you think and feel, especially regarding your partner. Trust is something that builds over time. It would help if you never had to rely solely on a person’s word.

7. Know what you want

It’s easy to assume everyone wants the same thing out of life. Yet, this isn’t the case. Even if you think you both want children, you may have different ideas about the time frame you are willing to wait. Similarly, you may want to travel extensively while your partner doesn’t. If you don’t know what you want out of life, you may settle for something you don’t want.

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Jason Smith

I am a Marine who now works as a Web Developer. I have five US States left to visit. I like whiskey, wine, and coffee, soaking in hot springs or in my hot tub.

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