When I started writing articles on Lifehacker about how to find your true love online (or, more specifically, what apps can help you find your true love), I got some pushback from readers who said they didn’t believe in true love or soulmates.
I replied, “Well then, why do you want to meet someone?”
But the question wasn’t answered. It’s an interesting question, and one of the reasons we write articles like this is to answer those questions. So here’s a list of answers to some of the most common questions people ask me about attracting my soulmate.
Attraction Techniques
“What should I do if I don’t think I’m attractive?”
If you aren’t attracted to yourself, you won’t be able to attract anyone else. This is something you need to work through. There are different ways of doing this, but the best way is by talking to other people. Talk to them and get their honest feedback about your appearance.
You might be surprised at the results. Most people are pretty open when it comes to complimenting others. You could even start by asking friends or family members what they think of your looks. They may not tell you precisely what you want to hear, but they can still be good information.
Once you know what they say, try to make your approach look more attractive. If you want to lose weight, go to the gym regularly. If you want to wear makeup, buy the right products. The key is to take action and make changes to improve the situation.
“So what if I’m overweight?”
That’s fine. It doesn’t matter what you weigh as long as you feel comfortable in your skin. That’s what matters most. But if you feel insecure about being overweight, there are a few things you can do to fix it.
First off, there are a lot of diets out there that can help you lose weight. Many even claim to help you lose 10 pounds in 2 days. While these claims probably aren’t entirely false, they can also be very misleading. Don’t fall for the hype. Instead, focus on working out and getting fit.
Second, you can always wear clothes that hide your figure. Wear loose clothing that covers up your body. Or, better yet, don’t wear any clothes at all. Some people prefer to stay naked while exercising, and that’s okay too.
Third, you can use makeup to hide the problem. You can also apply a light foundation under your eyes to reduce dark circles. A little concealer mixed into your face will also help. And don’t forget to moisturize frequently to keep your skin healthy.
You can also try using facial exercises or other beauty tricks to help your skin appear healthier. These techniques are a bit more expensive than clothes or cosmetics, but they can be worth it.
“Should I use dating sites/apps to find my perfect match?”
Not. Sure, there are plenty of websites and apps where you can post a profile and see if anyone responds. But these sites and apps won’t help you attract your true love. After all, you don’t know anything about the person you’re responding to.
Instead, you need to develop a deeper connection with someone before starting a romantic relationship. For example, if you’re looking for someone to hang out with, go to bars and clubs instead of a dating app. If you’re looking for someone to have a serious relationship with, you shouldn’t expect to find that person on a casual dating site.
Dating Tips & Advice
“Is it possible to get married before I turn 30?”
It’s certainly possible. The problem is that many people marry people who aren’t compatible with them. Several factors play into whether or not two people will be happy together. One is compatibility, which means finding someone with similar interests and values.
Another important factor is compatibility with children. You don’t want to marry someone who isn’t ready to become a parent. You also want to avoid marrying someone who has bad habits. And lastly, you want to make sure that you’ll be happy together in the future. Otherwise, you won’t be able to sustain a marriage over time.
There are many ways to determine whether you’re compatible with another person. You can talk with your friends and family members about your partner-to-be. You can read books and magazines about relationships and watch movies that discuss the topic. Finally, you can participate in activities together. Doing something fun like traveling, taking cooking classes, or playing sports can help you learn more about each other.
Of course, spending time with the other person is the main thing. When you get to know each other well enough, you’ll be able to see if you’re truly compatible with each other.
Love and Relationships Articles
“What should I do if I’ve been hurt in a previous relationship?”
Before you do anything else, you need to heal emotionally. Take some time to grieve the lost relationship. Cry if you feel like it. Then, start working on making new connections in your life. Don’t force yourself to date someone if you’re still upset about the loss. It’s much better to wait until you’re ready to move on from your past relationship.
After you’ve healed emotionally, you can begin dating again. Be careful, however, because you can easily repeat old mistakes. Avoid repeating the same mistakes you made in the past. Instead, make sure you’re focusing on improving yourself and your life.
And lastly, never rush into a new relationship. Take things slowly. Start with short dates and eventually move towards having sex. Make sure you both can handle the intimacy level before proceeding.
Conclusion
There are many ways to attract your soulmate, but many people overlook the most obvious ones. For example, many people ignore their attractiveness and choose not to put themselves out there. And then, some people spend money on cosmetic surgeries or expensive clothes without realizing that those things won’t necessarily make them more attractive to others.
If you follow these steps, you’ll be able to attract your soulmate faster than you ever thought possible.
For more great articles like this, check out our entire LifeHacker Dating & Mating series.
