I’m not sure when the last time was that I met someone who felt like my soul mate, but ever since then, it seems to be a rare occurrence.
So what can we learn from this?
The Problem With Feeling Like You’re Chosen
There are two types of people in the world: those who feel like they “know” their soulmate and those who don’t. If you fall into the latter category, this post will be perfect for you because I want to help you understand why we tend to think we know our soulmates when we don’t.
Why Do People Think They Know Who Their Soul Mate Is When In Fact They Don’t.
The problem with thinking you know your soulmate is that you have very little knowledge about yourself or your partner at all times.
We have our own personal biases that make us see things differently than everyone else. We also form opinions based on how other people act around us and what we experience, even if there is no reason for us to believe they are being honest.
To find your soulmate, you need to objectively look at the situation rather than see things through colored lenses.
1. Look At Yourself First
Before you start looking at others, you should figure out who you are as a person. What do you like? What makes you happy? What makes you sad? What makes you angry?
When you get to know yourself better, you can begin to identify what you think defines your soulmate. It could be completely different from how others perceive your soulmate to be, but it doesn’t matter. What matters is that you have identified it, and now you can find clues in the behaviors and actions of the people around you.
2. Look At Other People As Well
Once you have looked at yourself, it’s time to start looking at others. Start by asking yourself what kind of person you would like to spend the rest of your life with. If you’re single, you can ask yourself what type of man/woman would make you feel safe and happy.
Don’t just sit down and decide who you want to be married to, though. Instead, take some time to discover what makes you unique and what makes you happy before you jump into deciding who you want to spend the rest of your life with.
In conclusion, you need to stop believing that you already know who your soulmate is. Instead, start trying to figure out who you are and what you want from a relationship. Once you do that, then you can start looking at others to see if they match up to your criteria.
Feeling Special And Lucky
People often feel lucky to have found love and companionship. But why do we say that?
Well, it’s quite simple to explain. Whenever you meet someone new, you tend to have certain expectations. Maybe you expect them to be taller than you, taller than 5ft 9ins, to have long hair, to be good-looking, or to be funny.
What happens if they don’t fit your expectations? Well, most likely, you will feel disappointed and let down. This is especially true if you had high hopes and were hoping that you would meet someone special.
Of course, you shouldn’t assume that every person will match your expectations. However, one thing you can do to ensure that you always feel lucky about meeting someone new: is to keep your expectations low. Keep your standards high so that you never feel let down by anyone.
You Have The Right Partner For Life!
Now, we all know that plenty of people out there aren’t lucky enough to have found love and companionship. So instead of focusing on your past experiences, focus on what you can do to improve your chances of finding love again.
This means looking for someone who will accept you for who you are. Someone who will treat you well and won’t try and change you into something you’re not. You might also want to consider doing something similar for them too.
Soul Mates Are Rarely Found Outside Of Religion
As mentioned earlier, many people think they already know who their soulmate is. What’s more, they often base this belief upon religious beliefs. Many religions believe God has chosen a few individuals to be together forever. These are known as soul mates.
However, this idea isn’t supported by any evidence. It’s just a myth created to keep people tied to religion. But more importantly, it’s simply not true.
People Believe That There’s A “One” Person Whose Heart Belongs To Them
Another common misconception among many is the notion that there is a single person whose heart belongs to them. They think this person is so special that they don’t deserve to have another person love them as much as they love themselves. This is complete nonsense.
It’s perfectly natural to be jealous of others, especially when you’ve been hurt and rejected by others. However, if you truly want to love another person, you can best open your mind and become accepting of others.
This is particularly important when it comes to your soulmate. After all, you are supposed to be the one who completes you. Not the other way around.
If you can do this, then you will be able to recognize who your soulmate is whenever you meet them.
“He/She Just Has My Number”
Many people think that someone with their number must be interested in them. Unfortunately, this is not necessarily true. You may think that because you have someone’s number, they must be interested in you. However, this is not true.
In fact, it’s straightforward to lose track of someone’s phone numbers. This is especially true if you haven’t seen that person in a while. Therefore, if a person calls you, then you should not automatically conclude that they are interested in you.
If Someone Says Those Words Then This Probably Means He Doesn’t Care About You Or Likes You Because You Can Tell By His Actions How Much Meaning He Gives These Phrases
Another mistake people make when meeting someone new is assuming that they like you because they said something nice about you or complimented you. This is usually done subconsciously.
But remember, compliments and compliments can easily be used against you. Some people use compliments to manipulate others into liking them. They may even use these phrases to show off how amazing they are. This is a bad habit that most people develop early in their lives.
Therefore, if someone says something nice to you, this probably means they’re using you. So, avoid getting too attached to them quickly.