How Do You Know When You Meet Your Soulmate


We’ve all heard that searching for love can be a long, tiring journey. Many people opt for online dating sites like OkCupid or Tinder to find a potential mate. While these options are certainly convenient, some singles also go old-school by meeting someone at a bar or club.

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But what happens when you do find the perfect person? What if they want to go out with you for a few drinks and then spend the night together?

When does it make sense to take things further than just a drink or two? How do you know whether this is a relationship worth pursuing?

If you’ve had a few dates with someone already, how do you know if you have met your “soulmate”?

1) Do You Have The Same Values?

This may seem obvious, but you probably won’t get along well if you don’t share the same values as your potential partner. Everyone has different priorities, goals, and dreams. If you don’t share the same set of values, then it might not last very long.

For instance, you might believe in having more children while your prospective partner wants to raise an infant. You could be in favor of marriage while they’re still single. You might support the LGBTQ+ community while they feel strongly against it.

It can be easy to get caught up in the moment and overlook important details about what’s important to you. But if you start recognizing yourself in this new person, you should consider taking things further. Otherwise, you’re wasting time and energy on something that isn’t working out.

2) Does He/She Make You Feel Safe & Comfortable?

A good first impression is vital. Even though we often think of physical attraction as the most important part of a relationship, that doesn’t mean everything else will fall apart if you aren’t feeling safe and comfortable around each other.

If someone makes you uncomfortable during a conversation, then you probably aren’t want to keep seeing them. They might even make you feel unsafe. That’s not a good foundation for any relationship.

You need to feel mentally and physically safe and secure with your partner. If you’re feeling worried or anxious, it’s probably best to end the relationship immediately.

3) Is There A Sense Of Mutual Respect Between You Both?

Mutual respect is another huge component of a healthy relationship. If you don’t see someone showing you respect, then it’s unlikely that you will respect each other. So it goes without saying that mutual respect between you and your partner is key to a long-lasting romance.

Respect means valuing a person’s character and personality. It means thinking highly of someone’s intelligence, talents, and abilities. It means appreciating their differences instead of trying to change them into someone who looks exactly the way you would like them to look.

It’s much easier to respect someone if you enjoy spending time with them. You can only show someone respect if you value them as human beings instead of a disposable date.

4) Are You On Common Ground In Terms Of Life Goals And Objectives?

If you’re looking for a serious commitment, then you need to be able to agree to a few common ground issues before you get too involved. Understanding what you want from life and where you stand regarding certain topics is important. 

For example, if you’re planning on getting married and starting a family, you should figure out whether you want kids someday or not. Likewise, if you live alone, then you need to discuss whether you want to move in together or stay separate from one another.

These conversations can help you build a strong foundation for your future together.

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5) Can You Be Yourself With Each Other Without Hiding Anything Or Feeling Embarrassed By It All?

To truly connect with someone, you must be completely open with each other. If you’re afraid to tell your partner something because you don’t want to hurt them, then you’re missing out on the full experience of being in a relationship.

Your partner needs to know every aspect of who you are. If you’re worried that telling your partner something about you will ruin the relationship, then you shouldn’t bother. Instead, embrace your flaws and imperfections and learn to accept them. Only through acceptance can you grow stronger as a couple.

6) How Long Has This Been Going On For?

There’s nothing wrong with enjoying casual relationships for fun and recreation. However, if it feels like you’re always chasing after someone (or something), you might be better off focusing on finding a partner who shares similar values rather than settling for anything less.

It can be tempting to return to someone you dated once or twice. If you did, however, you were probably never emotionally in the right place, to begin with. If you want a real relationship, you must commit to building a solid foundation with someone you trust.

7) What Happens If Things Don’t Work Out and You Break Up?

Once you decide you want to break up with someone, you need to face the reality that things may not work out. Whether you’re breaking up with someone because you realize you’re incompatible or because you’re scared that you won’t ever find love again, you’ll likely experience sadness and regret.

However, it’s important to avoid letting those feelings drag you down or cause you to dwell on negative thoughts. If you allow yourself to wallow in self-pity, you’re only hurting yourself in the long run. Don’t let the pain get the best of you — it doesn’t matter if you miss your ex or feel bad about ending things. Remember that you have to move forward if you want to find happiness in life.

8) Why Did You Choose To Write About These Issues?

Writing about common relationship problems is helpful for many reasons. First, it helps you figure out what’s happening with you and your partner. Second, writing about your experiences can remind you of what’s important in a relationship. Third, writing about these topics can help you become a better communicator.

Lastly, writing about your experiences can give you hope. You might have felt hopelessly lost before, but now you better understand what works for you and what doesn’t.

9) What Would Love Look Like For You

So, you’ve decided that you’d like to pursue a relationship with someone special. Now comes the hard part: figuring out how to approach them romantically. If you want to find love, you need to learn how to talk to the women/men of the world.

Before you can ask someone out on a date, you need to know when you’re ready to take the next step. It’s important that you feel comfortable enough to do so. Once you’re confident that you’re ready, you can start your journey toward finding your perfect match.

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Jason Smith

I am a Marine who now works as a Web Developer. I have five US States left to visit. I like whiskey, wine, and coffee, soaking in hot springs or in my hot tub.

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