It’s an age-old question — how do you know if you have met your soulmate?
What Is A True Match
A true match is someone with whom you share physical and spiritual connections. They make you feel like you’ve been born for each other and vice versa. You don’t just think they’re “the one”; you believe it.
You get butterflies in your stomach every time you see them. You find yourself daydreaming about spending the rest of your life with them. You talk about everything under the sun, but you never seem to run out of things to say.
You enjoy being alone together but crave spending time apart as well. You laugh at little jokes and big ones alike. You have similar tastes in music, food, movies, and hobbies. You share common values and a sense of humor. You’re there for each other through thick and thin, and you feel safe enough to tell each other anything.
The Signs Of A Real Connection
Unfortunately, not all relationships end up working out. Sometimes people meet and fall in love quickly, only to realize later that this wasn’t quite the right person. Or perhaps it was too soon. That’s why knowing when a real connection has formed between two people is essential.
Here are some signs that will help you determine whether you’re connecting with someone:
- You feel like you were meant to be together.
- That feeling of “just seeing each other makes me happy.”
- You spend a lot of time talking, laughing, and looking into each other’s eyes.
- You feel like you can do no wrong (or at least less wrong) when you’re by each other’s side.
- You look forward to spending time together even when you aren’t around each other.
- Your conversations are more profound than most others you know.
- You have similar interests and passions.
- You share similar goals and dreams.
- You share the same feelings.
- You often think about the future together.
If It’s Not Working…
Sometimes, you may be on the lookout for a partner who won’t let you down. And sometimes, you might not be searching for anything more serious than a casual fling. Here are some ways to tell if a relationship isn’t going anywhere: You’re constantly fighting.
- You’re drifting apart.
- You’re rarely talking anymore.
- You’re not getting along.
- You’re angry at each other.
- You’re not sharing the same interests.
- You feel like you’re not getting anywhere.
- You’re afraid to bring up issues because you worry he’ll leave you.
- You’re worried that you haven’t found your soul mate yet.
- You’re both too busy to hang out as much as you used to.
- You’re starting to feel like you need space from each other.
- You’re constantly wondering if he loves you.
- You’re feeling bored, unfulfilled, or restless.
- You don’t want to take a risk.
There probably are some universal rules about dating, romance, and relationships. The problem is that these rules are hard to define, and we all have unique experiences. The best thing you can do when trying to figure out if you’re in a good relationship is to trust your gut instincts.
This means keeping track of the things mentioned above, both positive and negative. When you start to notice patterns, pay attention. These signs will help you know when you’ve met your soulmate.
But remember, it’s okay if you’re not exactly sure. It would be best to permit yourself to wait before making significant commitments. Don’t rush into something you don’t want, especially if you already have a solid foundation.