As a writer, I’m often asked how to know if someone is your soul mate or not. The answer is simple — you don’t!
The only way to find out if someone is your soul mate is to be that person. If you are the one they want to spend their life with, they will show it through actions.
And by actions, we mean they will make you feel like the most critical person in the world every day, even when you are busy working, taking care of children, or dealing with other issues. They will listen to you without putting any judgment on your words. And they will do all those things with you, at least sometimes, no matter how hard the circumstances may seem.
Signs That You’ve Found Your True Love
Many signs can help you identify whether you have found your soul mate. Some symptoms include the following: You feel comfortable being yourself around them. You can say anything when you are with them, and they won’t judge you.
They laugh at everything you say and never take themselves too seriously.
They treat you like a princess. They ensure you feel like the most beautiful woman in the world and always look perfect.
They tell you they love you every day and mean it.
They give you the best gifts ever. They know you deserve nothing but the best, so they go above and beyond to get you something right.
Their eyes light up whenever you enter the room.
If you have found your soul mate, you will notice these things around them and feel happy about it. But if you haven’t, then keep looking. There are more signs to help you figure it out.
Signs Of Romance
Another thing you should pay attention to is how you feel romantically toward them. If you feel butterflies in your stomach when you think of them, it’s probably love. If you feel awkward around them, it’s probably not love. Here are some signs to look for: You can’t wait to see them again. Whenever you are apart from each other, you feel anxious.
- You talk about them constantly and dream about them.
- You feel guilty when you aren’t together.
- You feel jealous of anyone else.
- You feel protective over them. Even if they are your friends, you protect them.
- You feel like you are the only person who matters to them.
- You feel nervous before seeing them.
- You feel giddy after spending time with them.
- Your heart skips a beat when you hear their name.
- You feel excited when you imagine being together forever.
- You feel like the luckiest person in the world.
All these signs are great to watch because they indicate that you are falling for them. But some signs could mean you aren’t feeling the same way. It’s best to ignore them and try harder to fall more deeply in love. Here are some more signs you might want to consider: You feel bored around them.
- You feel like you have nothing to say to them.
- You feel uncomfortable around them.
- You don’t enjoy fun activities with them.
- You feel like you have nothing to offer them.
- You feel bad for asking them to join you for dinner.
- You feel like their friends make them happier than you do.
- You feel like you have to change for them.
- You feel like you need to prove yourself worthy of them.
- Being alone makes you sad.
- You are living in two separate worlds.
- You feel like your family isn’t good enough for them.
- You feel like your career is holding you back from being with them.
When you start noticing these signs, it’s time to reevaluate your feelings. You may still love them but must find the courage to admit it. Because if you continue to ignore them, you will miss out on a fantastic opportunity to grow in your relationship.
If you are worried about making a mistake, remember this: mistakes happen. Every couple experiences problems in their relationship, but if you work on them, you can fix them. Take it slow, communicate well and be patient. Remember that love is worth waiting for, so don’t rush into anything. Take your time to get to know them better and decide if you genuinely want to be with them.
